I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.
I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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ok, so i was with my ex bf for a year, he's the boy i lost my virginity too and was basically my first everything so the break up was really really hard to deal with, anyway, we broke up at the beggining of September, so its been a few months and sense we broke up i've talked to a few guys but always in the back of my head while talking to them was the fact that i knew i was just trying to get over my ex. So naturally none of them went any farther than a friend. Just like a week ago however i started talking to a new boy and things are going really good. like, things are different with him, i actually have feelings for him, and i'm not just talking to him to make myself feel better. The thing is, i'm terrified, i'm so scared to put myself back out there again after being hurt so bad the last time. I wanna know how to, not get over the past because i know its not that easy, but i guesse i just need some help on what to do. Should i just not talk to guys for a while till i'm not scared anymore ? Or is this something that i just need to get over with time.. please help :(
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If you really like this guy then go for it hun!
Just go slow and do whatever feels right for you. Don't think too far ahead into the future, think more for the now. If in a few weeks you decide your just not ready yet then its fine, you tell this guy your sorry but your just not ready for a relationship just yet. You might find that in a month you really like this guy and want to be in a serious relationship.
Every girl goes through this so always talk to your friends or someone close you trust if need help. You don't need to do anything your not comfortable doing, and if your not comfortable then tell him that.
It's hard but just take a deep breath and do what you think you should do and what will make you happy. :)
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Thank you. You really helped a lot :)
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