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im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help! (link)
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hmmm it sounds to me like your friend is holding a grudge against you.maybe she herd something or someone made soemthing up to try break up your friendhsip.it happens!i mean what id do is 2 things.
you can first start with not talking to her until she talks to you.like give her space and room to miss you.dont pay attention to her and see if shell ask if theres soemthing wrong.if she does then you can let her know whats been on your mind and how you feel.just be calm about it and dont let the situation turn into an arguement.
the other approach is that you can go upto her when shes allone and not with her other friends and ask her if youv done anything to hurt her or dome anything wrong because you feel that your drifting apart.let her know that you miss spending time with her and fear that shes angry with you.tell her that you dont think youv done anythign wrong but if you have to let you know.
stay calm and try not to let it blow up in your face.
i hope this helped
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wow! that was really good advice thanks :)
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