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Q: 15/f
he's 18 in a month, i just turned 15. i went to his house and we were fooling around. he never forced anything on me so when i suddenly yelled no and wait and he did it anyway i...well it hurt...and then i went numb. afterwards i couldn't walk and my voice was shaking and my entire body trembling. i tried getting away but somehow my legs gave out. then he realized what he did and apologized over and over again. i said it was ok....he wants to meet next saturday. after he did it my entire body was trembling and i was breathing so hard i couldn't cry. i was just.....idk. i know it was my fault for not being more assertive. but i didn't expect him to. he knew i didn't want to and apologized afterwards saying he was sorry for forcing me. it was all my fucking fault and i don't know what to do now. we were safe. but he wants to meet this saturday and i know nothing good can come of it and he'll just do it again. it's fucked up, but even though i feel traumatized...i'm tempted to go back. what's wrong with me? i know i don't want it so why is my body telling me to? i'm not a masochist. what's wrong with me? i should be weary of my abuser yet i'm drawn to go back. am i just fucked up? help me please. i don't know what to do.
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okay, well i don't think this is a rape situation at all.. i mean you do have the right to say no.. but you really should have said it so HE knew it not quietly. People can't read minds there NOT EDWARD CULLEN. If you felt you weren't ready.. try shutting your legs. I don't think you have the right to call this rape.. it was just not your time to have sex.. you weren't ready and it happened so of course your going to freak out BUT IT WAS NOT RAPE. Try talking with friends or a councilor or something but if you go around saying you were raped.. your only going to get this guy in trouble.. for something he didn't do.. try reversing the situation.. if you want to be with him then you know just tell him you don't think you were ready for sex and you just want to take it slow and just hang out, so you had a bad first experience maybe his penis was to big for you or something maybe that's why you went numb.
just try talking to other people about there first sex expiernce for everyone, like you it goes bad.
goodluckk
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what i said was that i don't think that it was rape but that i'm going through emotional fucked-up-ness because i "feel" raped (from myself which is probably difficult to understand) and was just asing for some advice about it. I don't think he raped me.
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i dont try to get a 5 rating
i dont really care
i say what i think is right
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Gender: Female Occupation: student Age: 17 AIM: Member Since: June 26, 2007 Answers: 552 Last Update: April 13, 2011 Visitors: 26702
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