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Sophie is one of my good friends. Everytime I log onto MSN shes like "omg guess what oi" and then shes either really angry at someone or really upset. So I try to help her out in everyway possible like friends should. Trying to make her feel better and all sorts. But she never helps me out when I have a problem. Shes just like "dont worry about it, hes just a **** or somethng" and I care for her when she needs my help. I help her throught all her problems and everything and then i was angry about something one time and shes just like "you can be angry IM angry" and i was like woahhh settle down. I dont know what to do about her. And i cant get angry at her or in a fight because shes one of those people that you.. tell all your secrets to and if you get in a fight she will tell EVERYONE about EVERYTHING and my secrets cannot be told without me getting the biggest smash... what do I do ??? PLEASE HELP. sorry its long ! :P (link)
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ohhhh i so know how you feel.i was in a situation like this back in school.i didnt wanna get in an arguement because shed tell everyone my secrets and tell everyone she hates me and try to turn everyone against me.there no simpler way to do it but this is what i did.i stayed her friend and listened to her problems,stoped telling her my secrets,found another friend on the side did this till school finished then grdually drifted apart from her.so like pretend everythign is fine and just gradually drift apart from her but still be friends so that she doesnt tell people your secrets.suck it up till the end of the year because theres actually no better way of sorting this out.trust me iv been where you have!its a messy situation to get into if you argue with her or show your upset.just be strong about it and be good to her and gradually just slip away from her.
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thank you so much you have helped alot :)
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