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Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:)

Aw, I know exactly how you feel because I've been in the same situation. Boys always send mixed signals and it gets you so frustrated that you want to pull out all your hair, right?
In this case, this boy may like you a lot, but he sounds to me like a player. He flirted with you while he had a girlfriend, dumped her, went out with you, ignored you, you two broke up, and then when school starts, he's liking another girl !
He may have seemed worth all the trouble in the beginning before you found out about him fully, but now since you know what he's like, you should still be his friend of course, but nothing more. But, if you really want to be with him, you should tell him how you feel about this situation and how it's affecting you emotionally, and if he understands, you have to tell him that he must change in order for this to work.

If you need anything else, just ask !

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(Rating: 5) aw thank you that helped a lot!

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