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{A little lengthy but not a novel}
Okay so I have this friend who is a real pain in the butt! I know that has got to sound horrible but its the truth and I just don't know how to deal with it!
I am a sophmore and we have been friends since the begging of eighth grade.
She doesn't come from the best home life, parents were drop outs who got knocked up. She is a bit over weight.
She is nice, to me, and she is one of friends, we share locker together and everything.
What gets me though is she loves to make fun of others, especially people who are "bigger" then she is or who have disabilities. I hate that she feels so insecure and self consouse about herself she has to pick on others, but what should i say?
In first block she will even talk bad about someone who is siting next to me and I know they hear, and they think i am stuck up.
She also makes up stuff all the time to try to get attention. For example she'll say she didn't eat for 2 days and lost 20 lbs, and yet two seconds later she claims she went to McDonalds those same days! HELp
how do i deal with this without ditching her? She is my friend and i feel sorry for her, but i don't want to be pictured as the stuck up girl who talks about others with her. ANd I can't go one more day venting to my dog about all her lies.
WHEN WILL IT END. (link)
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oh man shes reallly mean thats one thing i would hate about someone is if they made fun of those ppl who can help the way they are.
next time she does soemthing like that do not encourage the situation by laughing of smiling or anything like that just look at here then look away shell then feel bad about what shes done. the next step is after shes done laughing be calm and just be like hey (name of the girl) thats not very nice. be like i dont mean to hurt you (watever her name is) but the things you say about people really hurt me and i dont feel comfortable with you saying those things. please dont be angry at me i just dont like it.then say...not everyone is perfect and we all hhave our flaws, ,me, you everyone not just them and it just makes it alot harder when people notice them and make fun of those flaws so please if your my friend youll stop, for me?
i mean either way she might get angry because as youv said she likes to be centre of attention so if she doesnt have it her way then shell get angry.just be calm about the situation and pull a sad puppy face too that helps
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