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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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there is a new girl at my school and she joined my group of friends. she has my exact same name which i have a very unique name so its awkward, she is my same hieght except shes super skinny and very outgoing and friendly and is so pretty. she gets along soo good with my boyfriend and best friend and is exactly like them so they talk about alot of stuff i dont understand. i used to spend every single day with my best friend and boyfriend. and now she is with my bestfriend everyday so i am pushed out n never get to see her n they ditch me. then shes always talking about everything with my boyfriend n she has more inside jokes with both of them than i do n always touches both of them n even held my boyfriend he always talks about her but says their just friends. i havent hungout with my best friend just me n her since the other girl came into the picture even tho we used to daily.. im just jelous :( this is literally the first time iv ben jelous so i have no idea how to deal with it usually nothing bothers me.. they both deny that shes getting between us but its so obvious what do i do

Well firstly, you are right.. I would be jealous too! You have got to remind your boyfriend and your best friend that you guys reqally are NOT spending time with each other anymore! They probably are so sunken with this girl that they haven't noticed that they were leaving you out. And if a best friend doesn't understand where you are coming from or see your point of view, then.. Is she really your best friend after-all? As for your boyfriend, I suggest you put your foot down. YOU are his girlfriend, he has to spend some amount of time with you, maybe even more than the new girl. Communicate with him. Let him know where you are coming from and WHY you feel insecure about this, it is ok to feel vulnerable and insecure with your boyfriend. It only bring the two of you closer as you guys are both touched on a deeper level.
They seem to have forgotten what was once there, you, so you have to remind them and remind them that your friendships with the two of them are in serious trouble, and you all have to work on it together. They have to come back to reality as it seems like they are avoiding the truth. See how it goes!

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