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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now and i feel like its the same old stuff. I go over his house, we make out, he might feel up my shirt or something.. and thats it. i'm not interested in any type of sex so i'm wondering how i can change things up. i really have no ideas. i mean we do just hang out sometimes and like make cupcakes like last week but its usually the same. Thanks!

Honestly, you guys seem quite shallow. If you want this relationship to be deeper, more meaningful for the both of you then I suggest you start doing a little more talking and less doing.. Since you both are comfortable with each other on a physical level, it is probably time to work on your emtional closeness. So maybe talking about things that you don't normally tell other people, things that reall get to you, just feel comfortable about talking about anything. And some things for you to do would probably be romantic things, if you're the romantic; maybe picnic at the park, lying on the grass under the moonlit sky or the sunlit sky, just being with each other and talking about whatever and just being close. I think that would definately give your relationship more essence than right now!
Touch each other on a deeper level, a non-physical level. ;)

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