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15/f

Alright, so this boy I like was flirting with me in 2nd hour like crazy, and so I teased him and gave him a hug and all that, and he grabs my arm to keep me from giving hugs etc. etc. and my friend says "Quit flirting, you can do better than him."


Well I told my mom about it all and she says I gotta be careful or people will call me a slut. (I've not even had my first kiss yet though so that's impossible...)


So..... it's not like this happens everyday, the hugging thing I mean. So, am I still ok as long as this doesn't go on all the time or is my image already not very good?

If someone calls you a slut for hugging a guy, tell them to go a dig a hole.
That's ridiculous. A slut is a girl who sleeps with numerous guys that she's not even going out with.

Your image is fine. Hugging is not bad. Flirting is not bad.
I mean the only thing that can affect your image is if ya'll just have a full on make out session in the middle of class.

Flirting/hugging is FAR from being a slut.

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