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Ok so, I have a best friend, let's call him Nathan. We have been best friends for 4 years. I love being around him, he's funny and smart and just an all around good person. We text each other every night just talking about whatever, nonsense haha. My mom says that he likes me because every time I talk about the one boy I like he texts back "I'm sensing more than cozy between you two" I don't know if that means he's just making fun of me or he's jealous. I took a "does my best friend like me" quiz on the computer, I know they don't work and most of the answers are just made up right off the top of the creator's head but all of them said yes, he does like me. I don't get it though, a while back I liked him and he told me he looked at me as a sister and that's it. We spend every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday together due to school functions. He's also in my one class (a class I'm not to strong in) and he is always there to help me on something if I'm confused, he used to do that to so that's not a big deal. Just help me, does my best friend like me?
When he told you he saw you as a sister, did he know you liked him? If he didn't, he was probably just saying that for fear of being rejected.
Guys aren't sure half the time if they like a girl. Neither am I when it comes to guys in general. But if they say that they're not sure, they probably DO like you.
He might be jealous, or just kidding. I don't know him personally so I have no idea. But with most guys, it'd probably be a mixture of both.
Those quizzes usually ARE half right depending on the quiz and if you take it not trying to get a certain answer. So hey, maybe it's right.
Does he text you first or do you text him first? Or both? If it's both or if he's always the one who texts you first, that's a gooooood sign. Haha.
Even if he doesn't, I think there's a good chance he likes you. I doubt you'll wanna risk yall's friendship, which is understandable, but you'll never know how he honestly feels till you put yourself out there & see.
And worst case scenario;
You tell him you MIGHT like him. He doesn't feel the same. Things get awkward. You can just tell him you realized you liked someone else. Problem solved, even though his ego may be a tad hurt.
Just follow your heart & everything else'll work itself out.
Good luck.
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(Rating: 4) thanks. it's a mix of both for texting first. i just dont know what to do if he does like me. we're so close i dont wanna lose him if anything happens.