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Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on the sofa, well this is an update
She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped crying for the last 4 hours.
we both still love eachother very much and are going to stay in contact but just not be together. I think its a good idea but as much as i hate to admit its a good idea i hate to see her go too.
really im asking what do i do now? wait the 2 years out till she comes back from University? or do i just try to move on, we have such a connection i havent felt it this much with any other person ever and im not exaggerating.
Ps: thank you very very much for your help in previous question's. the last 3 weeks have been the happiest i have had in a long long time. (link)
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awww your most welcome, your such a sweety!!
when i read this i laterally yelled out NOOOOOOOOOO!!! im really sad because your sad. i could just tell from the beginning you loved her.
you dont have many options. i mean did you think about moving with her to where shes going?i know you cant just drop everything and leave but its something you can consider.
long distant relationships are really hard and theres a very slim chance theyl work outbut then again distance is a test to see how far love can travel. really dont want to be telling you this because i know how much your hurting.
what if she settled down at uni and you joined her later on. i mean if you love her then shell be worth it. Talk to her about this there has to be another way!!
on the other hand your the only person that knows whats best. if you think its a good idea to break up and go your seperate ways while staying intouch to find out what the future has instore for you both then go with that. i mean right now things are a blurr but i think deep down you know what to do but to afraid to admit it because whatever option you choose its going to peirce your heart. just remember that time heals everything.
im really sorry about this and i wish i had some majical powers to make this go away but instead ill just promise you that ill always be here for you...you should add me on msn just incase
sia.d.sus@hotmail.com or if you have facebook let me know what it is and ill add you
PS smile for me k theres still a future to come and who knows what can happen
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thanks for all your help, i did add you. im Dobby240@hotmail.com
i dont think moving with her will help all that much. as much as i do love her i think that letting her go will be for the best im just glad that we are going to stay in contact. but if all goes well again in 3 years time depending on what way goes were i would love to try again... but for now these have been the best 3-4 weeks of my life for a long time
thanks again for all your help
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