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Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on the sofa, well this is an update

She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped crying for the last 4 hours.

we both still love eachother very much and are going to stay in contact but just not be together. I think its a good idea but as much as i hate to admit its a good idea i hate to see her go too.

really im asking what do i do now? wait the 2 years out till she comes back from University? or do i just try to move on, we have such a connection i havent felt it this much with any other person ever and im not exaggerating.


Ps: thank you very very much for your help in previous question's. the last 3 weeks have been the happiest i have had in a long long time.

Hey,
You don't necissarily have to "let her go" just because she is going to be a (few) miles away. Long distance relationships do work out! I personally wouldn't move on so soon, expecially since you have a connection with her. You could keep in contact by having conversations through email, you can send her cards,letters,and special things though snail mail, and you can call her anytime she is free :) Just because a person is not right in front of you, does not mean that you can't be with one another ;) Good luck! I'm sure things will work out

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(Rating: 5) i would love to try a long distance relationship, but i can see it now. were both missing eachother, she cant concentrate on her work and ill be doing the same. But i didnt argue or try to despretley fix whats going to happen anyway even though we love eachother i think this could be for the best no matter how much it hurts now :'/
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