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16.F / Junior in high school

I think that I unfairly judge others based on their GPA / class levels in high school. I'm a very competitive student in all honors and AP classes and I think, unintentionally, I base people's intelligence based on what classes they are taking (e.g., if another student is taking B-level classes, I assume they are lazy and that he or she doesn't care about school, college, or career success, or I greatly respect students taking many honors / AP classes). How do I STOP judging people based on their GPA / class levels and realize that not all students in honors / AP classes are necessarily intelligent and that not all B-level students don't care about getting into a top university?
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i respect you so much for coming forward and asking advice about stopping youself from judging people.

ok so im not the smartest girl on this planet and people do look down on me because im not the smartest spark in maths or some subjects and i know it. i know they look at me differently and never ask me about assignments because they just assume i wont know or assume i havent been listening but you need to understand that i try just as hard as those who are really gifted in those subjects. i could study till my eyes bleed but i would still be an average student. some people were just not made for some subjects but this doesnt mean that we re uncapable it just means that we re A+ students in another catagory could be arts or Biology or something else. it just makes our lives alot harder when we re being looked down on even if you think we dont know, we really really do and sometimes it makes us cry at night to know that we re being judged...hope this helps you stop judging i know you cant help it and that your a nice person but put yourself in their position:)


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Aw omg thank you so much. You are really sweet! ♥




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