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Q: hello im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we have been dating for about 7 months now. I've realized now that just this past month we've been having more little arguments lately. We really do love each other and i really think hes the one and i know he feels the same. Its just i have a problem with him smoking pot. I tell him i dont like it and he knows that but he says hes gonna do it anyways and he doesnt think he should change. I should like him for who he is. I do like him for who he is its just im tired of him doing it. I just hate it when he does. And those who do smoke pot out there please dont gimme a lecture on how it is possibly good for you. But its pretty much just been about that. There is no way of me getting him to stop. Is there anything you suggest i have pretty much tried everything. And he says he doesnt do good with punishments he just will keep doing it. I've tried it. Thanks to you all in advance!!
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I have been through this before.
I totally understand why you would want him to stop. First of all, you dont want to be influence you and possibly get you addicted to it. Secondly, you dont want him to get into trouble with the law, and third, you find it gross and repulsive. right?
You are going to have to be very serious about this, and give him the ultimate choice. Tell him that you love him, but his drug abuse is going to tear your relationsip apart.
so he needs to decided whats more important to him. Weed, or YOU. Tell him if he doesnt clean his act up, its over.
be strong. It will be very hard to do but you need to respect yourself and he needs to respect you as well.
If you had a bad habit, like, "sleeping with other guys" and he wanted you to change, you would, so why wont he stop smoking if he knows it makes you uncomfortable???
there is no double standards in real, successful relationships. Be strong, and tell him its you or the pot.
if he wont change, end it. Because he obviously doesnt respect you, and you dont want that. You deserve better
hope this helps! email me if you wanna talk about it. =]
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
steph 21
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Hi! I'm Stephanie, I'm a 21 yr living in Houston, Texas. I've been living on my own since I was 17 and wouldnt have it any other way. Ive been through many bad things in my life. Instead of letting things hurt me and make me bitter and depressed, I have let them make me stronger. I can give great advice on almost any subject. Im getting married in December to a wonderful man named Chris, and will soon my a military wife! inbox me or email me anytime, id love to hear from you!
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Houston Age: 21 Yahoo: Member Since: July 10, 2009 Answers: 205 Last Update: August 6, 2014 Visitors: 16165
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