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E-mail: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Zealand
Occupation: University Student, soon to be teacher
Age: 20
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Hi,
I am a 17f. Theres this guy I met and have known for several months. He is 18 and he is the absolute sweetest guy ever, which is why I like him. We have hung out a few nights and cuddled a little. The problem is, I know he has another girl that he feels strongly for. He told me about her and hes told me he loves me, but its not the same love that he has for this other girl. Then he tells me later that he just loves me. He also said he wants to kiss me to see if theres 'a spark', I didnt think that would be right so I didnt let him. I dont want to get closer to him, expecially knowing he has another girl. Everyone thinks we are dating and I keep telling them NO WE ARE NOT. I think I really like him, Im just unsure. I think hes unsure as well. He makes me feel like I have never felt before, but I can't help but think that he will end up ditching me or I might find someone better.. you know? I told him we should just be friends..deep inside I want it to be more;I am sure he does too but..yeah. I have never dated before, cuz all the other guys I know are losers and just want sex. I want it to be right. I am not the kind of girl that dates just anybody for the hell of it. Please tell me what you think, Just be friends or.. ? (link)
your just like me, doesnt just date anybody and if this was me i wouldnt date him..i mean he has another girl on the other side so hes pretty much playing both of you.hes manipulating you to think he likes you, maybe he does but who know maybe you two get together and another girl comes along that he likes hell do the samething he did to you to another girl while being with you..think of the other girl hes with dont be the other woman its not fair on her..even if he breaks up with her or lets her go shell still try get him back and hell still wanna be with her especially when he sees her with another guy..i say dont do it but thats only me and my opinion


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Yeah, what you said is very true. Thanks :)




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