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E-mail: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
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Well I have two questions to this topic. First I will explain the situation.

My boyfriend and I broke up (Ex now) about a month and a half ago. I left him after 2 years because he always abused me, never made time for me, and wouldn't let me do anything. He used me sexually and financially. I finally left, and couple weeks later I found someone else. I got over it so quickly because I never really loved my ex for a couple months prior to the breakup. I finally did because I couldn't handle it anymore. Well my new boyfriend and I are in love, happy, and such.

Problem is, the ex is still trying to contact me. He calls and texts me from different numbers; he IMs me from screenames I never even gave him; hhe tried messaging me on myspace but I blocked him.

He wants me back obviously, but I am not taking him back. I keep telling him to leave me alone but he won't. He's really becoming so bothersome that I feel stuck.

He has threatened me in the past, says he has stalkers on me, and knows where I live. My parents suggested a restraining order and a number (cell) change. Now they think a restraining order is a waste, when I would feel safer doing it. Now they just think a number change is better. I will consider the number change.

So my questions are, what all do restraining orders do? And is it worth doing it in my situation?

Thanks in advance. (link)
he sounds like an ass! What id do before you ask for a restraining order is have full and solid proof that he wotn leave you alone..like bunch up all your emails all myspace comments make sure that you have proof that you have told him to leave you alone and proof that after you warned him he is still trying to contact you. when you have all this go to the policce and explain the situation


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