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Q: My dads girlfreind! For the past year she has came before everyone in his life! I mean come on now because I didnt get along with her and buy her crap she convinced my dad to make me come live with my mom. And now for the past year me and my dad fight everyday ..over her!
Im so sick of it I love my dad so much and wish we could have a relationship and talk like we used to but its impossible with her. No matter how many times I tell my dad how I feel he defends her. I wish she would die, she took the most important person in my life from me. what can I do?
Im sorry you are having to deal with this.... it stinks!

My dad was a high paid security guard for NASA here in houston and when he met this lady kim, he left his whole life behind and went with her. She's absolute trash, NOW they live out in the middle of nowhere in a 100 yr old house that's run down. she works at a restarant and he now spends his days behind the register at a dollar store. A DOLLAR STORE. WTF?

His new wife is mean to me thank god I don't live with them, but I feel bad for my little sister because she does! And kim is such a bitch. ...my little sis tells me that kim talks bad about me all the time and verbally abuses my little sis when dads not home and when sis tries to tell him, he calls her a liar!

Neither I nor my sister can figure out exactly HOW this woman came into our life and turned our dad from a successful man. Into a man who has nothing!

My advice is, see if you can talk to him privately. She doesn't need to be there that might make you more nervous. Tell him that kids should come first and that you are happy that he is happy, but you are absolutely miserable because of her attitude. Tell him if nothing changes, you will be forced to cut ties with them and as much as it will hurt you, this is something that you must do for the your own sake. Noone should have to live with such built up resentment!!

Inbox me if you want to talk. Or email me. Im here for you!!

Stephanie.ellick@gmail.com

Steph 21

Thank you very much

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steph2k10
Hi! I'm Stephanie, I'm a 21 yr living in Houston, Texas. I've been living on my own since I was 17 and wouldnt have it any other way. Ive been through many bad things in my life. Instead of letting things hurt me and make me bitter and depressed, I have let them make me stronger. I can give great advice on almost any subject. Im getting married in December to a wonderful man named Chris, and will soon my a military wife! inbox me or email me anytime, id love to hear from you!

stephanie.ellick@gmail.com

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