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Q: Well this is a tough one and I have no clue what to do, lost you could say. Im going to try and explain this to were it makes sense. Im 13 and turning 14 in a month. Curently I live with my jerk of a step father and mom. when i was little something happened with me and my dad. He went to jail. My mother lied saying my step dad is my real dad. I found out the truth a year or so ago and found my real dad a month or so ago now me and my dad have grown close. How do i get my SD to let me see my dad?
i also have step-dad / real dad issues

honestly, i cant tell you its really going to depend on what your dad did.

if he did something serious, like sexually molested you or something like that, then I can understand why they wouldnt want you to see him.

if it wasnt that severe, you need to be mature about it and talk to your mom and your step dad about it and tell them they cant deny you to see your real father (unless its court ordered)

if they still dont let you, you can do whatever you want when you turn 18.

hope this helps. =] email me if you need anything or want to talk about this more.

stephanie.ellick@gmail.com

steph 21

Thx :] my father would never dream of doing that. He had a rage and accidently hurt me then turned himself in. hes a different person now. Hes the most important thing in my life. SD is trying to controll everyone and is a asswhole. I dont know what to do im under lots of stress right now. Muchly appreated :]

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Hi! I'm Stephanie, I'm a 21 yr living in Houston, Texas. I've been living on my own since I was 17 and wouldnt have it any other way. Ive been through many bad things in my life. Instead of letting things hurt me and make me bitter and depressed, I have let them make me stronger. I can give great advice on almost any subject. Im getting married in December to a wonderful man named Chris, and will soon my a military wife! inbox me or email me anytime, id love to hear from you!

stephanie.ellick@gmail.com

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