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Q: so the other day,
well actually now a couple of days ago,
me, my girlfriend, my guy friend, and one of my closest (girl) friends, went out.

all the while i couldnt help but notice that my (girl) friend, kept flirting with my girlfriend.
she called her cute, and when my dude friend squished a bug that my girlfriend was looking at my (girl) friend sort of pretended to beat my dude friend up. in the car back home, my (girl) friend kept trying to talk to my girlfriend, and i was just livid that whole ride.
i didnt know if i was just being rediculous and over pretective or not, so i chose not to say anything.
im not worried about my girlfriend liking my (girl) friend, i just think that it was so rude to, (through my observation) flirt with MY girlfriend.
i dont know what kind of attitude i should display to my (girl) friend, or if i should confront her about the whole situation or not.

help??
is your (girl) friend bisexual?

if she is, she might have been flirting, but if shes not, then i can explain what this is.

usually, when you have a best friend, whomever the other is dating needs to be accepted of approved by your best friend.

so in other words, your (girl) friend might have really thought your girlfriend was a great girl for you, and wanted to show you that she approves of your relationship.

i know because my best friend is a boy, and Im a girl. we are so close and respect eachother, and if I start dating somebody, he always wants to meet him. i can tell if he likes my new boyfriend or not by the way he acts towards him.

same goes if hes dating a new girl.

so just dont be mad at your friend. shes just showing her approval and its better if they get along anyway because relationships are always hard when your friends and your new GF dont get along.

it shouldnt become a jealousy thing. If your girlfriend and your (girl) friend respect you, you shouldnt have to worry about a thing!

hope this helps!

steph =]

thanks!

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steph2k10
Hi! I'm Stephanie, I'm a 21 yr living in Houston, Texas. I've been living on my own since I was 17 and wouldnt have it any other way. Ive been through many bad things in my life. Instead of letting things hurt me and make me bitter and depressed, I have let them make me stronger. I can give great advice on almost any subject. Im getting married in December to a wonderful man named Chris, and will soon my a military wife! inbox me or email me anytime, id love to hear from you!

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