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Q: THe other night I got in a fight with my dad about our past and I started writting and this is exactly what came out on paper: "I look for love that is my purpose in life, to search for something I may never find or feel. Not once in my life have I felt that I was truely loved by any one person. I tend to do anything and everything I can to feel loved, rithout love I will always be unhappy. If I die without finding true love I will have had no purpose in life! I need fullfilment, to feel complete. I honestly blame my mother and father for my problem! They were never around to give me the love I needed as a child, and now I search for a different kind of love the hardest kind to find, True Love! I get myself into so much trouble and heartache at times doing anything I can to make guys happy hoping that one day they will love me, but they never do!"
So thats my problem! HELP PLEASE? :(
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i was in your exact position when i was 16. heres the best advice i ever got.
"as soon as you stop looking for love, it will find you"
i thought this was a load of crap.
amazingly, i gave up trying to find a man who would love me. a few months went by, and a guy named Chris asked me out.
we have been together for 5 years now. We;ve lived together for 2 years, and we are due to be married in December!
stop trying to please everyone all the time. It will make you look desperate. be confident, love yourself first, show guys that you dont need a man to be happy, and they will come crawling on their knees to be with you.
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Hi! I'm Stephanie, I'm a 21 yr living in Houston, Texas. I've been living on my own since I was 17 and wouldnt have it any other way. Ive been through many bad things in my life. Instead of letting things hurt me and make me bitter and depressed, I have let them make me stronger. I can give great advice on almost any subject. Im getting married in December to a wonderful man named Chris, and will soon my a military wife! inbox me or email me anytime, id love to hear from you!
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Houston Age: 21 Yahoo: Member Since: July 10, 2009 Answers: 205 Last Update: August 6, 2014 Visitors: 16169
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