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I haven't had a boyfriend for 2 years since my last big break up. A few hook ups here and there, but nothing serious with anyone I really liked. Well, things are progressing with a crush I've had for years. We were cuddling on the couch last night, and my problem is that I haven't stopped thinking about him all day. I promised myself I wouldn't, but I texted him this afternoon and asked him to hang out again tonight. I don't want to rush things and ruin everything. How do I keep myself from overwhelming him too quickly?

Overwhelming HIM too quickly. You're doing a good job of overwhelming yourself. Let all of these good feelings be just what they are-good feelings. Don't worry. If he is spending time cuddling with you he is already serious.

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