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Hey, I'm Brianna. I'm 18 years old. I like giving advice. I won't give you any of that petty advice like "look at the bright side." I mean really, that's wack. I hate when people tell me that. I'm here to try and help you with any of your problems. I'll give you honest advice that hopefully will get you on the path that leads to the right decision. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. I'm going to give you straight advice. It might not be what you want to hear, but that's advice. Take it or leave it, it's totally up to you. I sign on everyday, usually a few times. So come on, drop questions into my inbox! I try my best to always get back to you within a few hours. Don't be shy, everyone needs a point in the right direction every once in awhile. :D
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I like this person and he is all about just having me as a friend with bennifet.. I had sex with him once and he said it was ok. I dont think he is going to come around again. I really do like him but I dont think I am his type because he is into the skinny weman. I am thick.. I would want some type of a relactionship with him. Is there something I can do to get his attenction?? I know by writting this it is very stupid of me to like something like this but I know I would be good for him but he doesnt see it.
This guy is obviously a jerk. Only wanting to be friends with benefits and telling you that the sex was just 'ok.' I'd stay away from him. You don't need to be with a guy who doesn't appreciate you. I was in the same position, the guy I reallly liked only wanted to be friends with benefits and it sucked because I wanted to be more than that. But I had to stop talking to him because I just liked him more and more everytime we hung out. You have to try and stop liking him because you'll end up getting hurt. If he is trying to be friends with benefits to you, he is probably being friends with benefits to other girls and that's just going to hurt you. No girl likes to see the guy they like hang out with other girls and hear about them doing stuff with other girls. So my advice: stay away from him.
Do you really like him or do you just like the fact that he is there, avaiable? There are plenty of other guys out there that will like you for who you are. No matter if you are skinny or thick. That shouldn't matter. If a guy likes you, he will like you, mo matter your size. Hang in there and the right guy will come around. I'd stay away from this jerk.
Don't do friends with benefits with him. You don't want to get pregnant or get an STD or be known as someone who does friends with benefits.
You seem like a beautiful girl on the inside and out and the right guy will come around and notice that. You just got to be true to yourself.
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
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