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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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so ive been having a feeling me and my boyfriend are gonna break up because, we're getting into alot of fights about him flirting with other girls. ive caught him about 5 times flirting & ive caught him staring at my 2 friend's (he was staring at their ass) ive heard alot of rumors that he likes 1 of them but he denies it. so idk who to believe my friends or him. so technically i need adive about: is this like signs off us breaking up? im 13 &+ my boyfriend is 14

Breaking up is a decision made between the two of you, ONLY. So if YOU want to end it because so feel like you have had enough of him flirting with other people, because you have caught him, then do so.. It is your choice! Rumors will always be there, and they will either break your relationship or make it stronger. If the two of you, mainly you right now, can fight and ignore the rumors, this will bring you two closer. He probably is just curious and all guys stare at other girls and things like that, whether they are with you or with their friends. Let him know, or just remind him that you don't like him staring at other girls, and flirting with them too. It is your right to not like such things, after all, you are his girlfriend. And about the arguing and fighting, it may just be a bump in your relationship, if you want to make it work and feel that breaking up over such is just not worth it, then smoothen it out TOGETHER. If you feel you just can't do it anymore, then follow your heart, break up with him. Breaking up is your choice. So chose wisely because you won't want to regret it later on.

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