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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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19/f. So I have this amazing fiance whom I love very much, and the possibility of being pregnant with his kid. We've been together for almost two years, and planning a wedding.

Well like a week ago, we brokeup because we got into a huge argument. He broke my heart badly and felt that I should move on. Well I put up an ad on Craigslist about me wanting a relationship. I ended up getting 5 valid responses from guys saying how cute I am and such. Well I got to know them all a little bit. Then suddenly my ex-fiance came around to apoligize and he treated me to the movies, and begged for me back. So I accepted happily.

Now the problem is, I have these 5 guys wanting to go out with me. I don't know how to tell them I am going back out with my fiance. Like they LIKE me. I still want to stay good friends with them, yet I already know it'll break their heart.

So as a note, don't tell me I shouldn't of went to Craigslist in the first place. I think I already know what I've done. I am asking is, how can I break the news to them?

And I am faithful!! I never cheated and never will.

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Well, the whole thing about putting up an ad and getting people to respond is a public thing, just tell the 5 guys that you have found a guy, you don't have to get into the details, it is none of their business, and so you would like to continue being friends with them, if they don't mind. You leave it open for them to make a decision, whether to be your friend or not. It isn't your fault that your ex came back and you are back with him. It is life and things like that happen. If the 5 guys are willing to be your friend, then.. You got what you want. If they don't, then it's ok. It just wasn't meant to be. Don't feel guilty about it though, because it wasn't your fault and you couldn't have known what was going to happen. The 5 guys should be cool with being your friend. You never know when what may come out of it.

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