I'm kinda new at this kind of thing, but here goes.
I enjoy swimming, wrestling, rollerblading, hanging with my friends and boyfriend, now of 2 years. I do not agree with the media and do not follow style, i think it's just stupid.
When I give people advice, i'm usually speaking from my past experiances, if not, i'm just trying to wrack my brain for an answer to your problem.
I have only found one ture friend in my life but have many close friends as well. I'm basically the strong silent type. I hate lables and would wipe them from this earth if it were possible.
My parents are divorced so i know what it is like to have familly problems (and lots of em' belive me) as well.
E-mail: alys1223@hotmail.com
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Location: Saskatchewan
Occupation: grade 12 student
Age: 17
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I know most people would think that it is a bad idea to be friends with your ex right away, but neither me or him want to stop being friends. The thing is that even though I broke up with him, I still have some feelings for him and he still does too. But I'm dealing with them and trying to make them go away. But he told me that he is scared of us hating eachother one day. I would never want that to happen. Does anyone know how we can stay friends without risking ruining the friendship altogether? Thanks. (link)
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i would say take a break for a while, don't really run into each other purposely, but don't avoid each other either. if you still have feelings for the guy, consider this: do you want to get back together with him? if not, like i said, take a break till everthing blows over and you both no longer have feelings, your friendship should not be harmed that way, and it won't be ruined by still having the feelings for each other. with my ex, we still remaind friends, but did just as i described, now we can still talk, visit, or share how our days went like you would with any friend, although, i had no feelings for him, only him me >.<
hope that helps,
~alys
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