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I have been with this guy for a few months and we've friends for a few years. Our relationship is different from most people our age,we don't play games and we both know that we'll always be together. I really love him but a lot of things have been happening lately that I'm worried about. Tell me what you think;
He gets mad really easily and says that he's not good enough for me and he's an idiot and all that.
When he gets upset he really hurts me, he'll just leave without saying goodbye and he won't come over.
He always thinks that I don't care about him as much as he cares about me and that he shows me how much he loves me but I act like I don't love him.
HELP! Has anyone ever been with a guy that does these things?

Yes, and I hate to tell you, but it's only gonna suck worse. He is depressed with a low self esteem. He will always think you are cheating on him, whether you are or not. He wont want to hang around your family because he will think they all don't like him. He will tell you he needs you to be happy, but it really sucks having to try to make the person your with happy all the time. If you are happy he will try to bring you down. He will get jealous if you are happy. It will all be about him. You will be walking around on eggshells. When it is good, there is nothing better, but it is hardly ever good. Listen to Cheryl Crow-If it Makes you Happy.

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