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Hey, I'm Brianna. I'm 18 years old. I like giving advice. I won't give you any of that petty advice like "look at the bright side." I mean really, that's wack. I hate when people tell me that. I'm here to try and help you with any of your problems. I'll give you honest advice that hopefully will get you on the path that leads to the right decision. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. I'm going to give you straight advice. It might not be what you want to hear, but that's advice. Take it or leave it, it's totally up to you. I sign on everyday, usually a few times. So come on, drop questions into my inbox! I try my best to always get back to you within a few hours. Don't be shy, everyone needs a point in the right direction every once in awhile. :D
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so my best friend and brother just started dating. i hate that so much! i cant be a bad friend to her though and say how i really feel about them. i just dont want to lose her because everytime we are together she is texting him and they are in the same house and she wants to go to his room to be with him when we are supposed to be having "best friend time" however everytime they are together she never texts me or even splits her time between us. she promised me he would never ever take her away from me but i feel like he already is..what should i do?
You would not be a bad friend by telling her how you are feeling with the fact that she is dating your brother. If she really is your best friend she would listen to what you have to say. You are allowed to tell your best friend how you are feeling. Thats what they are there for. They are there for you to confide in, to tell them how you feel, if you are happy, sad, or mad. You should tell her that it upsets you when she comes over to hang out and then goes and hangs out with your brother and that she texts him 24/7 when you two are supposed to be hanging out.
Don't be afraid to tell her how you are feeling. She should understand if you are her best friend. If this was the other way around, if you were dating her brother and you ignored her when you two were hanging out, how would that make her feel? You should ask her that.
I know I wouldn't be happy if my best friend was dating my brother. I would despise it to be honest. You are a great friend for letting her be with your brother even though it kills you on the inside because you feel like you are losing your best friend.
Talk to your best friend. Tell her how you feel. You'll feel better in the end. Good luck!
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
(Rating: 5) thanks sooo much, brianna. your really a great help and a natural advice giver :)