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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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hiiii my name is . . . welllll it shouldn't matter but i'm 15 years old . female . my boyfriend is 17 and well I want to do "it" with him but i'm very shy and I have lots of debates with myself. like I hate the way vaginas look lol . I don't know what to do if it hurts a lot . I won't be able to look him into his face . that's just how shy I am ! ! ! . & like I feel very insecure about the "odor" or "scent" of my vagina . because I never smelled anyone else's so like I don't know if it's wrong . I already went to the gynechologist (i probably spelled that hecka wrong) . she gave me medicine for bv bacterial somethin . & like I don't want to open my legs to him and get embarrassed :(
so please someone help me with some comforting and truthful words .

Honestly, you don't sound like you're ready for sex, with him or anyone. I hope he isn't forcing you into it either, and just because he is not a virgin doesn't mean you have to lose it too. If you feel insecure about being a virgin, it could be his influence indirectly. To conclude, you don't sound at all ready for sex. If you're going to have sex with someone, I believe it has to be meaningful and more than just sex, there's got to be some deep feelings and connections. You both have to be very comfortable with each other, where everything is in the open, where you can talk about anything and everything, and this includes looking him in the eye and saying this is sore or whatever during sex. It is quite a big decision as it is something you can't get back.. Once it is lost, it is lost forever. Don't let other things influence your decision etc.

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(Rating: 5) oh my gosh . thank you so much . that helped me a lot . maybe i'm not ready but it sorta seems like i'll never be:-(
but you're a very good advice giver . thanksss again
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