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im think im totally in luv wit this boyy. we went out in the summer and then he broke up wit me aftr we dated for lik two weeks. it was sad and i alwayz talk about how much he brok my heart. i think i fell in luv wit him! i only known him for two weeks but still the heart wnats what the heart wants.
my friend yelled at me the other dday cuz she says im not in luv, i just hav a crush. but i dont think so. im probably in luv with him but he doesnt luv me back. what do i do?
I can't tell you how much that sounds exactly like a situation that happened to me. Like, for a minute I thought this might be my friend playing a joke on me haha But I'm going to answer your question.
First, calm down. You're not in love. I thought I was in love with a boy too, after he broke up with me after a week or so. I never stopped talking about him and I convinced myself he would come back. But things got better, and time went on. The less I saw him, I was able to forget those feelings, so that when I did see him, it didn't hurt so much.
There is no "remedy" for a broken heart. And I truly understand how you feel right now. But the only thing that will help you get over him, is to look at other boys. Remind yourself that this guy broke up with you, and if he's stupid enough to do that then he doesn't deserve you. Start doing things with your friends, and listen to their problems too. Be happy for them when something good happens, because it eventually makes you happy when your friends are happy.
Basically, just limit the amount of time you have to see him. Don't seek him out, or try to win him back. If he wants you back, he will come. And if its just a stupid flirt like my ex, then he will flirt with you all the time and make you think he likes you again, so be very careful. Those types of guys are the hardest to get over. Just realize that he is a player, if this sounds like him.
Hope I helped! Feel better sweetie :)
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thnks but plz dont vent ur problems to me wen im the one asking the questionn
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