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E-mail: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Zealand
Occupation: University Student, soon to be teacher
Age: 20
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I have been dating a guy since they very begining of September all intentions on getting married. We have had rough patches. example: my son and i were sleeping, his friend and him were in the other room had taking cold pills doing air guster and drinking. he was being a jerk telling me to get out of the house etc. i stayed. it was like 3 am. My sons father keep texting me and i keep telling me to leave me alone (i know from the past that if you tell him what he wants to hear he leaves you alone) so i told him that i missed him in a sacastic way. my ex got mad.. there has been this number calling my boyfriends phone i asked him about it he told me it was leon.. leon was over and the number started calling i asked him about it he goes oh its an old buddy who smokes pot so i didnt tell you because youd get mad. a week ago i had a guy feeling something wasnt right. i looked at his phone which i never do. nd there was text messages saying i miss you and i can not wait to see you. and mwahh.. they had plans for last sunday. she didnt know he was dating me or even living with me i moved out the next morning. he keeps telling me how sorry he is how much he loves me and he wants me back that im the only girl he wants. he told me he did it because he got scared about getting married and she was supose to just be a friend but she told him everything that he wanted to hear. and he wants to work it out with me hell give up drugs and drinking. take his phone away till i trust him again. i feel like i love him but i also feel he wants someone to help with bills. he doesnt have a car so hes stuck at home besides work. i dont know if i can trust him last time i seen him i couldnt even look him in the eyes the same. but hes telling me what i want to hear because i want him back but i like being single.. i just need some advice please. (link)
a cheater is always going to be a cheater..ofcourse hes going to tell you the things you want to hear because he may have done it before to someone else or knows how to play the game..some times guys just cant stop the cheating and what if another girl comes along and tells him all this sweet stuff and tells him what he wants to hear what happens then?your better than that he was sleeping around and sneaking behing you back and lying to your face while telling you he loves you..thats all im going to say the choice is up to you and i no its easier said than done but you need to let him go theres plenty more guys that dont drink and do all that nonsense out there and can treat you just as right


he hadnt cheatd yet but he had all intentions to cheat..and would of cheated if he hadnt of been caught.he may still have it in him to cheat sweety i no u want to try and bring out the good in this but there is no good not any more u can do soo much better xox


Rating: 4
he didn't sleep with her yet i caught him a few days before he was supose to see her.




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