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13/F - he is 14/M
Okay here are just some questions for boys only (or girls if you think you can answer them) that protain to a problem I am having now: (please answer them like you would if you were 14)
1. Do boys ever play around with girls' emotions for the heck of it? Like do they ever just get a laugh out of messing around with a girl's feelings? If so, WHY??
2. What are boys' reactions when a girl starts crying?
3. What would a boy do if he likes a girl but doesn't want a girlfriend? What should the girl do in this situation?
4. I've heard a lot of diferent girls' opinions, but in you opinion do you prefer to chase a girl or have her come to you?
5. What ( in your boy opinion haha ) should a girl do if the boy she likes (and he says he likes her too) is ignoring her? If he likes her why would he ignore her??
Please help me out guys, this boy is really confusing me... And you say girls are confusing... Ha.
1. Yes YES definatly yes. Some do it because they're just being stupid and need someone to pick on, sorry it had to be you,and some do it yo impress their friends.
2. A guy's initial reaction to a crying girl is whats wrong with you and 'please stop crying' because most guys cant handle it when a girl cries.
3.If a boy likes a girl but doesnt want that relationship more than likely he's just going to flirt and just 'chill' with her with making any sort of intended committment. The girl should decide if she cares that she and this person are not official or if she wants that at all. If this girl wants a boyfiend then she should either encourage an official situation or discourage their behavior all together.
4.I'm a girl... but i have alot of guy friends and most of them say they prefer to be the persuer because it keeps their intrest and if you had to work for something or in this case someone you value it or her more.
5.There could be a number of reasons but in simple guy mind mode more than likely this guys just has other things on his mind right now, not sure if he wants to be with you like that right now, or is already with someone else.
(Rating: 5) thank you!