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Hello! My name is Shelby. I'm 13, about to turn 14 in April, and I have the greatest boyfriend anyone could ask for! His name is Landon, and he's sweet, funny, and loves me with all his heart. I love to hang out with friends, go to school, surprisingly, and to just relax and have fun. I'm on the computer most of the time. I love being on Facebook. I love to listen to music. But the one thing I love the most is Landon :D. If you have ANY questions, you can ask me and I will answer the best that I can.
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Sorry to be so blunt about it, but its beginning to piss me off. We've been dating now for over 8 months, and she seems incapable of completing the smallest tasks (like operating the ice maker on a fridge for instance) or even dealing with the smallest insignificant issues that come across the average person in everyday life. She cries all the time, and whenever i'm anywhere near her friends (whom are also my friends) she gets EXTREMELY jealous and basically pisses me off. I've never yelled at her, and i've been nothing but the kindest, sweetest boyfriend i can be, but sometimes i feel like our relationship is going nowhere, and i honestly can't see us even making it to valentines day :(
Am i crazy, or are there girls out there that are emotionally stable and don't feel like they need to make me feel that i'm prince charming every time i put ice in my glass? I just wish sometimes that i was with a girl that was a little more outgoing and less clingy. One that can just "hang out" without having to figure out what we're gonna do before coming over.
By the way. What she lacks in emotional stability, she makes up for in physical intimacy, and i feel trapped. We haven't had sex yet, and i know we both would be okay with it if we could ind somewhere other than the top of a parking garage to let it happen... but now, i'm almost afraid to be any more intimate with her than i already am, because i don't want to hurt her so badly if we break up.
All I can think of..is to be honest with her. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for 8 month's..and when he broke up with me..he didn't tell me the honest reason..he just made up a bunch of excuses. PLEASE be honest with her..
Tell her you dont like her jelousy..and how you dont like how she's clingy..and all about her not being able to complete simple tasks.
If you be honest with her..it wont hurt her as much as breaking up with her and not even trying to fix it.
So please just be honest with her..tell her what you like about her..and what you dont like..what she can improve on..that kinda thing.
I wish you two the best of luck. :)
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