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My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got mad when I told him what I thought...and i dated him for 5 months and know he´s a good guy. Lately a lot of my "friends" true faces came up...so I dont really know what to think... am I right to think that he´s just playing with me....and that...hes and idiot? in my eyes hes trying to get together with two girls since one was obviously going to say no then theres the back up one....Im nobody´s backup...and i have someone who loves me and truly cares about me....what should I say? am I right to think this way? Im 17 female...

One game people play is this...
"I really want to get my girlfriend back, but I don't think she wants me anymore. I know what I'll do! I'll make her jealous. I'm going to ask out her really good friend. I can't lose. If she gets pissed, I will know she still likes me(or at least get the satisfaction of knowing she is jealous), if she doesn't get pissed than I will know she doesn't like me, but at least she will think I'm over her because I asked out someone else."
The worst part is, it kind of worked, huh. You have a boyfriend, but now you're busy wondering about your ex and actually considering getting back with him. He is probably getting more attention from you since he asked out your friend than he did when he was your boyfriend.

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou..its not that i like him...no its just Im really nice and I dont know how to tell him to back off... but ur right...I wasnt really jelous...but it was kind off like...ok if you're after her then leave me alone....thanx for ur time
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