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Well, I'm 14/f and I just started going out with this AMAZING guy a couple days before Christmas. So we've only been going out for about 2 weeks or so. Already, I feel this strange connection to him that I haven't felt towards any other guy. I like him a lot...enough to call it love. So I love him, but I'm not IN love with him. Well it's weird, because no matter how much I want to see him again and just hear his voice, every once in a while I just find myself not answering his call or text just because. I mean, this doesn't happen all the time, but every now and then I'll just look at the caller Id and just not pick it up :/ Is this normal? I mean, I love him to death, but sometimes I just feel like some down time... does anyone else feel like this? Thanks!

Good for you! Believe it, or not, the fact that you are not sitting around waiting for him to call is going to make him want to be with you all the more. So many girls get into this mindset that they need to talk to their boyfriends all of the time, and they end up pushing him away. He is going to like the fact that you have your own life.

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