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Okay so i recently broke up with my boyfriend about a little more then a week ago. We went out for almost a year, and i just didnt like him anymore and i was suffering so i broke it off with him. About 5 days later i start talking to this other guy, and he was like "Ive liked you since you were going out with mark, and i was waiting for you" so we started talking constantly on the phone for hours, texting, and we always talked about how much we liked eachother. We planned to go out in a week or two, because my ex was so/so friends with this guy, and i didnt want to hurt my ex's feelings. So, we both decided we would go out, but we just wouldnt tell anyone. So we love eachother, and weve been friends for about 6 years, but we started talking like a year ago.
Would that consider me a slut?
What do you think?
Should my ex know about this at all? (link)
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First off, you're far from a slut. Sluttiness doesn't even come to mind when I read this. I think that what you're planning is perfectly fine, just as long as it's what you want. Don't worry too much about what your ex thinks, because you're obviously not together anymore, so unless you're still friends and you know that he still has feelings for you then I wouldn't think you need to tell him. If you don't feel comfortable keeping this new relationship a "secret" from your ex, then feel free to tell him if it will make you feel better. Just keep your feelings in mind, and I bet everything will work out.
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