I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
Gender: Male
Location: Minnesota
Age: 53
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i went out with this kid last year for about 2 months. i broke up with for no specific reason, i just didn't feel a connection. now were really close friends, and we hang out a lot and alone sometimes. we started hooking up when we hung out.. and we agreed were just friends with benefits. he fingered me last weekend, and i had no problem with that.. but i know he likes me and that i don't feel the same way, and he understands that. is it wrong of me to fool around with him as friends if he still has feelings for me? (link)
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If you want more then a yes or a no, then maybe you should ask more then a yes or no question. But really, do you need more then yes or no? You're playing with this guys affections, if this were a guy doing this to a girl, there would be no question here at all, would there? If you felt you were doing the right thing, you would not be asking.
Giving ratings based on not giving explanations when you don't ask for them is wrong, how would you feel in school if your teacher graded you on a true or false question, by whether you explained your answer when she didn't ask you too.
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Yes
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Rating: 3
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ok yea i understand what you're saying. i guess my question wasn't worded with the response i was expecting. thanks for you response :)
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