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Life is full of hardships and though being as young as I am, I've dealt with a lot over my time. I'll admit, I've never had a death of a loved one, getting stung by a bee, had cancer, or died and revived so I can live to tell about it, I still have some know hows on how to deal with it all. I know things here and there that have nothing to do with anything but it helps in times of need. Its all a matter of paying attention and figuring out what could have, would have, or should have been done.
I can give great advice sometimes, buts a matter of fact that you can't just read it and go,"That's a great idea, I might do that..." Take into account that advice is only as good as the person who uses it, not the person who gives it...
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)
Character is what God and the angels know of us; reputation is what men and women think of us.
Horace Mann
US educator (1796 - 1859)
Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
Luciano de Crescenzo
A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint.
Albert Schweitzer
French philosopher & physician (1875 - 1965)
God always has an angel of help for those who are willing to do their duty.
T. L. Cuyler
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About 4-5 years ago, I met a guy that I'll call 'Chris.' Chris and I became friends, and were JUST friends, for about a year. Then, one night, Chris is hanging out at my house and we're both intoxicated and we end up sleeping together. After a few weeks I come to the conclusion that he and I are 'friends with benefits.' Something that I'm not proud of, but that was where I was at that point in my life.
Anyway... Chris and I are 'friends' on and off for about a year and a half. About two years ago I started talking to this guy that we'll call 'Jay' and I haven't spoken to Chris since. Jay and I started dating and we've been together for almost two years.
I haven't spoken to Chris... I haven't thought of Chris... Last night, I had about five dreams just about CHRIS. I can't remember much... Only that I supposedly cheated on Jay with Chris... Jay and I broke up... And then Chris and I were together, and I don't mean in a 'friends with benefits' sort of way either. Towards the end of the last dream, right before I woke up again, I remember feeling really... Happy.
Which is odd. Because, like I said, I haven't even thought of Chris in two years. During the times that Chris and I were together, I knew that he wasn't relationship material. I never had any delusions about being in love with him. Which just makes these dreams even stranger.
Why am I having these dreams? And why now?
There are several possibilities to why you could be having this dream. If it keeps repeating, its because your mind is telling you something that your not listening to.
Different people have different types of dreams. And different people dreams for different reasons. So don't rule yourself off to one of the reasons listed, it could be anything really...
It could be:
You still have feelings for him
Your mind is telling you not to do it again
Your mind isn't going to let you forget what you did
Your mind is trying to get you to do it again
etc...
Then again, it could be anything. If I had time, I could make a good list, but I don't like to get to far ahead of myself. Your really better off just waiting it off and see if it subsides. If the dreams repeat, then you might wanna take into account what if. If the dream changes, then something new has come about. Again, lots of variables, tons of results that could be right and/or wrong. But its your dream and you should interpret it how you want to.
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