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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

Got some love life issues? Need a quick self-esteem boost? Confused in a relationship? .... Just ask Venzuela!

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Hi. 17/M
I want to ask girls out but there's just a voice at the back of my head that's constantly saying "Why would she ever want to go out with you?"
I'm a really funny guy and I can always make girls laugh, and I know that's a sign that they like you, but I still can't get rid of that damn voice. Where did it come from and how do I get rid of it!

Well, a confident guy definitely puts a girl in a spot where she actually considers you, a GOOD thing! So just boost yourself esteem a litle more, making girls laugh is a toal bonus. Find more things you're good at and focus on that... When that voice comes back again, you can answer it, you can say, "It is because,... I can make her laugh and not many guys can do that, so that's a bonus!" You can fill it in without whatever you're good at!

Ask Venzuela

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(Rating: 4) Unfortunately, pretty much everyone can make her laugh. I don't really see it as a unique talent. Sure, I'm funny, but who isn't? I'll try to boost myself esteem. Thanks!
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