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i need major help geting over my ex. We have been broken up for like 5 months now and im still having trouble getting over him. I cant get him outa my mind or out of my dreams. We dated for 4 years before he left me. And he left me for some other girl. He wants 2 be just friends and acts like nothing happends. I just wanna knowmhow he can act like this when we had such a serious relationship. When is this going to stop hurting??

It is really really hard, believe me I know. The truth is it will probably hurt for a very long time, but each day it should hurt a little less until finally one day you have come to terms with it. He doesn't get it, he probably thinks that you would still want to be friends, and maybe on some level you do, but you are just not ready to be friends. Tell him that you want to be friends but right now it is too painful. Focus on other things, don't call him, don't text him, don't stalk his myspace or facebook, just ignore him. It is hard to do but I know it can be done. Someday you will look back on your past relationship and value it based on what you learned about love. But until then hang in there and hold your head up high.

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(Rating: 5) thankz s0 much


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