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well hey there! i'm fourteen.I like to chill,play bball with my friends,read,listen to music and do whatever a teen likes to do.I'm mature for my age.I don't act like a whiny little girl. status? taken.
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oh okay, this my story i need help on.
last year i dated this guy who is two years older than me, well this guy is VERY inexpereince NO joke, so well anyways it was only a week a lasted because he didnt come up to me at school, which he does to all his girlfriends becuase he doesnt know how to approach a gril GAY i know well anyways, this summer he came over to my cousins and we made out and it was his FIRST ever kiss. GAYER i know, well anyways were talking but the thing is HE LOVES!!!! to talk to other girls to but he doesnt get close to them like that. now i had asked him if i was wasting my time and well yeah im he said so i told him that i was talking to another guy so it wouldnt look like i was heart broken and stupid and now im talking to that guy VERY UNEXPECTANT!! well now im still stuck on it. becuase the very inexpereince boy goes to the gym every morning bc he loves to play basketball and well i have gym 1st period so im there wiht my friends, well anyways he gives me a look like he wants to get back but idkk he so so so so SOOOOOOO EFFIN. confusing, i dont know if i should talk to him again even if he did break my heart. so yeah, and that guy that i didnt think i was going to talk to after he is so sweet, and we are "offcially talking" but i had LOVE and i absoulety LOVED the inexpereince guy for the most longest time and i dont know if im over him. gahhhh I posted a question called a "a year long fling or a year wasted" and well i got my answer when i asked him but he is so confusing.
gahhhh i dont know what to do at ALL!!!!!
Help me out please.
-cheergirl0811 (link)
well I think you do because sometimes when you look at the person that you absolutely love and you're not with them right now, then deep down inside of you,you still have feelings for him and I know you do. it's hard to let go of someone you love. but does your heart tells you that you're still in love with him? follows your feelings. but since you loved him and it's hard to let go and you look at the person,you start having those feelings you once had for them again but sometimes things don't always work out the same as the first time. so I think you do still have feelings for but you're just unsure. try talking to him as friends again and see of anything happens again.

-I hoped I helped or at least gave you ideas :).


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I found out i still have feelings for him, when i cried becuase some other girl was wearing his lettermen already (so FAST) but im connecting really well with this other guy. :) so well i think it might take my mind of it.




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