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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

Got some love life issues? Need a quick self-esteem boost? Confused in a relationship? .... Just ask Venzuela!

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ok dont think im a slut cause im pretty far from it....but i do kinda feel like one cause i love my friends boyfriend and he has told me that if i really want him all i have to do is tell him and he would leave her for me. i think that is so mean to do though. i could never bring myself to do that to her. i love her as close as a sister and i have told her how i feel about him and showed her some of the txt messages that he sent me so she knows about it and she has talked to him about it and he denied that he would leave her. but we are getting pretty close and im scared to hurt her. another thing is that when i confessed to her she told me that she wasnt to worried that she trusted me and would never believe i would hurt her like that but its driving me insane i love him i really cant help it but i dont know what to do.........HELP

Get hold of yourself! He is your best friend's boyfriend! And it isn't only wrong to be getting flirty and intimate with him, but you're falling for him too! So stop this conversation with the guy, let him know that your friend is more important to you, and as much as you would want to, you won't! It is immoral! Get over him and start moving on, talk to other guys, keep busy! Remember he is your best friend's boyfriend! And ask yourself, would you mind if that best friend of yours started getting intimate with your boyfriend?!
And talk to your friend, tell her that you won't date him, but you just don't think he is a good guy, because he doesn't mind leaving her for you, which shows he has no loyalty and feelings for her, if he did, he would care about hurting her and never say something like that. Let your friend know that you feel this way because you care about her, and that you wouldn't get with him after they break up. Just tell her, let her know, don't expect anything, she will think and feel for herself!

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(Rating: 5) it makes alot of sense what your saying and i will definetlty try to back off
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