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cloudy_conscience
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Hey Folks:
I need some advice. I don't know how to say this, but will try my best. I've been talking to someone who lately has been having life problems. Here's what's going on with her. Her mom left her when she was about 4 or 5 years old, she's now 19. Her dad treats her like crap and dosen't really care for her and she also has a grandmother that lives with them that also dosen't seem to care about her. That can be very hard on someone for when they need their parents but don't give them the care that they need. Up until last night, she was dating a boyfriend who was pretty abusive to her. They were together for a year. Just last week, I was giving her advice and told her that they needed to break up, well she wouldn't listen. She said that her and her bf were gonna try to talk and that she would tell him how she felt about him. Well he didn't want to listen. So they broke up last night. Since the breakup, she's been very sad and in the past, she's had suicidal thoughts and at one point, had to stay in some place for a few months due to something else I won't say on here. I'm afraid she could become that way again. I would like to know what I can do about this situation. Also, does the fact that her parents not giving her much support is causing her to feel like no one cares about her? She does have friends including me who do care about her, but she dosen't think so. What is up with her? She's tried counseling in the past, but it didn't help her. (link)
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well it seems like your friend really needs people right now to show her that people do care for her and not everyone is going to be like her parents and grandma. right now its probably hard for her to trust people and htink people care about her. and i would think yes to the part where her parents not supporting her makes her like this. & obviously the boyfriend isnt doing any help hes obviously making it worse. but shes probably staying with him because she feels like someones there to care for her even though he looks like hes doing the opposite.. but she really need support by you & whoever cares for herr with this boyfriend & tell her she doesnt deserve that & she shouldnt put up with it and can do much better . hope i help & i hope everything goes good with your friend. she seems like a great person that doesnt deserve this.
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Well she is still living with her dad. As far as I know, she isn't living at her bf's place. But she maybe fed up with me now.
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