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Q: sometimes i feel like doing my life over again... but if i could i probably wouldn't make the same mistakes.. but allot of people say i would.. is that true??? and if i could do it... would i have met the same people
Here's a thought: If you hadn't made any mistakes in your life what would you learn? Honestly, I believe that the mistakes we make morph us into the person we want to become. Mistakes are made so that we realize there's a consequence for certain actions. We learn that there is some bad parts of life. If we didn't already experience this we wouldn't know how to handle obstacles that come our way.

The people that you met have affected you in some way whether it be good or bad. In a way you should be grateful for that. The people who weren't the best in your life have made you realize some problem and in some way you dealt with it. Use this and think what you can do next time you meet someone like that again. The people who are good in your life you need to keep and use them for inspiration of the person you want to become.

Try not to think about doing your life over. Learn from the past and build for the future. You can change the way you think and avoid similar problems you had in the past to make your life more simple. Start your life over by remembering experiences and grow on that. :)

wow... even i couldn't think of something that deep... thanks i realize now that kat not loving me will just make me not make the same mistake in a relation with someone.. i made a poem about the pain of love. thank's for turning my life around

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