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First off, what would be your definition of "fake"? People use that word in so many different ways, that I don't understand what it is anymore.
Anyways,..
This past year, I have lost many of my so called "best friends" over things that I did not do. Lately, people keep screwing me over like crazy. My friends would do the stupidest things and it just makes me think twice, how many chances should I give these people after all of the things that they did to me.
I have major trust issues and it's so hard for me to let go .. but I honestly don't know what to do. I stand up for myself at all times and I feel like I'm too nice sometimes.
I'm emotionally drained from being hurt and I don't know how to take it.
Are second chances always good, even third? Can some people ever change after being so "fake" towards me.
I just need any advice. Thank you.
I have, somewhat still have, the same problem. Just start choosing your friends more wisely. I'm now all of a sudden best friends with someone who is so much more quiet than me, and I never thought in a million years that I would be friends with someone like her.
I know what you mean about feeling to nice. Just don't let them take advantage of you. Let yourself stand your own ground.
Try keeping a journal about your feelings, it helps me a lot.
Second chances AREN'T always good. Third is bad. If they mess up once, they're liable to do it again, and again, and you don't need that. If it's something small, forgive them. If it hurt your feelings a lot and say it's the third chance, move on.
Some people change from being fake, but most don't.
My definition of fake:
"Someone who tries to be something their not. Someone who is so two faced they will do anything to hurt someone else. Someone who acts so nice to you than they're so cruel to someone else it always makes you wonder what they say about you when you aren't around. Someone who all in all, tries WAY to hard to fit in."
hope i helped. let me know.
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You're right, & thank you. That really did help me.
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