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Q: well i was just wondering how like everyone says that if you don't fight or have alot of bad times then its not a real relationship? but like i really like this guy, we're not technically dating but we both really like each other and i think he's gonna ask me out soon the next time we hang out, but we don't fight at all and we have so much fun together but we've never been in a fight yet. so my question is, is that normal? does it mean our relationship won't last because its not real? i kinda want a fight to come though because i want to see if he will still stay with me but i dont wanna like pick a fight, what should i do? thankss
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I don't think that because you don't fight alot, you don't have a lot of bad times, and you enjoy each other that you don't have a real relationship. Now if you have dated for at least 6 months and you haven't fought at all thats a little strange. Every couple has small little fights, thats just normal, but if you don't then don't worry about it. Some couples may not get into their first fight for a lot longer than another couple, it just depends on your relationship and the people involved in it.

Don't listen to the sayings and such, if you believe that you really like this guy and that you want to be in a real relationship with him, then go for it. It depends on the two people in the relationship and if they want it enough then I think more power to them and they may just be happy. So I say go for it, if you want to try this guy then go for it. Do what makes you happy and you will always be happy.

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