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Q: My parents are divorced and my mum is remarried, my stepdad recently said some terrible things to be. What happened was; my mum and stepdad had an argument, when my mum went upstairs she left me and my brother in the firing line of his anger. I have recently seen a councellour for other reasons, and he said some hurtful things like; Everything that ever goes wrong in this family is your (me and my brothers) fault, then everytime your mum gets upset its your(me) fault! and "councelling at your age" Deal with it!"
Know I can't even look him in the eye and I got really upset at school yesterday and It is really getting to me, I want some advice on how to get over it. Thanks for your time!
im going through something similar with my step dad, what i do to get over it is just go take a walk and listen to music. Also talk to your mom and tell her and see if she can talk to him about it..every time my step dad gets pissed off im the first person he yells and screams at, and i yell and scream back lol that gets rid of some of the anger but just tell him that he shouldnt be talking to you like that and tell your councilor

Thanks great advice!

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