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2. 18 at the moment
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If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
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Ok, so I have been dating this guy for a while now and I really do love him. Like I have thought I was in love before, but realized I have never loved anyone the way I love my boyfriend now. And I know that he loves me. I don't need him to say he loves me, although he does, but I can just feel his love. Well, about a month ago he bought me a promise ring. It is really pretty and I almost never take it off. It's white gold with our birthstones (real stones) and our names engraved in it. The night that he gave it to me he told me how much he loves me, and that someday he would love to marry me. He was saying that he might propose to me in a year or two. I think about this everyday now. He really is my everything. I guess that my problem is I find myself thinking of the future too much, if he proposes. And when I think of this, I become really quiet and he knows what is running through my head. It makes him sad a little just because I am so quiet when I think. Is there any way to not think so much about the whole possible engagement?
if your thoughts are happy then you shouldn't be bothered by thinking of this, its wonderful. not many people find true love in this world and you have everything to look forward to. however if these thoughts aren't good then you should pay attention to what life is giving you at hand. when you find yourself caught up in how the future will be just stop for a second and clear your mind.
there are many aproaches to clearing your mind such as visualizing yourself surronded by a bubble and all the thoughts you want away from you are outside this bubble. you should then feel like you are staring into darkness or into the center of darkness. other than that i'm not sure how you can stop thinking of him. good luck in your future with your love =]]
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(Rating: 4) thank you and i guess i shouldn't try not think...it is normal and thanks