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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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mmk. So I was with this guy for maybe 8 months? Okay. Well we were really close and he had told me that he loved me, and that it would never change. Then all of a sudden he just disappeared off the face of the Earth. He was gone for about 3-4 months. And I never received any notice that our relationship had ended, but when he came back, he wouldn't talk to me and he ignored me. Then finally one day. Oh and I hadn't ever tried to talk to him when he came back, because I was nervous. But one day he decided to talk to me, and it was just like it used to be. But then he refused to talk to me after that. I have no idea what's going on. He still hasn't told me it's over. Although I assume it is, for obvious reasons. But it's like he's holding back and I don't know why. Then not too long ago he told me that he 'forgot that he ever loved me'. Can you forget that? What's his problem? And should I just ignore him right back? I haven't made any move to speak to him again, because he hurt me so bad.

I'm just terribly confused and any advice on what's happening would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.

He sounds like a total jerk! Sorry to say, but he played you. He comes to you when ever he wants and things like that do NOT show love! The fact that he said he FORGOT just proves it! YOu're right, if he really did love you, he would never have forgotten! So I suggest you ignore him COMPLETELY and avoid him, do not spend any time on him or whatever, he simply isn't worth it! Someone who treats you liek dirt is definitely not someone you should be spending your time with, there are SO many poeple out there! Don't waste your time!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you! You're right. He IS a douchebag!
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