I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
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I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
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I'm going to use fake names: the first person is Andrew and the other is Nick.
I started taking classes at my high school early, and, naturally, I got to meet new people and started to hang out with them. Well, Andrew one of the guys that I talk to, and he points out little stuff about me, but not in a bad way (ex. my hair, my shoes, whether I'm talking a lot or not, etc.). I started to hang out with the girls a little more during our breaks, and he always manages to find where we sit, but break is pretty much over by then. Andrew keeps staring at me in class too. Does Andrew like me? Or is he just being nice to me?
Thanks for any of the helpful advice! Answer soon! (link)
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If I say yes, are you going to get all carried away and start making your wedding plans? If you are, then the answer is no, but if you can keep your cool and not try to take this situation to a level you should not at your age, I will tell you the truth.
If a guy say more then hello to you, he is open to liking you, he is open to being your friend. This is where it should stay for a while, friends. Get to know each other without the pressure of having to preform as a boy friend and girl friend. Let the relationship develop naturally and find out who you are together and apart.
Making demands on each other is not the place to go, finding out about each other is where you need to go. Be calm, take it slow and don't get stuck in something you are not ready to handle.
Be well dear girl and be smart.
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Thanks for the advice! It really helps!
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