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14/F/UK
So i have an amazing boyfriend who i'd never dump. He's out side of my school (goes to a different one) and we see eachother over weekends. We've been going out now for about a month.
We've hugged and kissed (like a peck on the lips) and now i think he wants to go further like a pull (snog) kinda thing (fair enough).
I was just wondering whether there were any tips that people had for me? One of my friends said that there's some sort of way that your tongue has to go? like girls go clockwise or something? I wasn't sure so is it true?
Please, ny thing will do. It's not my first but i've not done it in about 3 years. :S Any fo your tips will do, anything at all.
Thank you. :) x

Keep your lips moist just before, or you can lick your lips quickly. Then just tilt in the opposite direction to the guy, lean in a little and close your eyes. Your lips will touch his, then part your lips for a peck, THEN start with the french kissing. I suggest that way, with the peck first, as it is like a warning as to what will happen after, which is usually the frenching.
And by the way, kissing is like riding a bike, you can't really forget how to, you just need to do it! SO just take a deep breath, don't forget to breathe and, go with he flow. There is no right or wrong way with the tongues, you usually go clockwse then anit, or whatever! Don't make it too thought-out, it should be spontaneous and genuine!

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